The only way to connect these connections was to stand half way up a step ladder and hug the 9000 close to my body and wall yet far enough away from wall for my misses to push in the connections. There wasnt enough 'play' on the am aerial to get that in so i remounted the 9000, pushed up the bit of wood again, and with my head torch on i struggled for around 15 minutes before realizing the plug was the wrong way around.

Anyway finally it was on the wall and connected.